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Take Your Ball and Go Home

Today, I got something I asked for which prompted me to write this post. I have been struggling lately with my ego. Arrogance and ego are terrible things, especially for a person who suffers from anxiety like me. My ego often and easily triggers my anxiety. So, in turn, as a means to change a…

Why Must I cry?

So…the Twins Asked About Conception

So…I just got home from picking the twins up from school. I am in sheer, anxious terror right now, so try to bear with me and the tone of this post. Today was like any other day I would get them from school, except I got another mom’s number for a play date…oh, and on…

Look how much fun I am having!

He’s Been Around

I married a man who has been around. This is a rough subject for me. I have been thinking about writing about it for a long time, but yesterday there was a discussion pertaining to the topic on twitter that hit a nerve with me. The first time I met 4th Roomy, I knew he…

Ultameatum

Ultimatums

You know how people always suggest it’s never a good idea to give other people ultimatums? I disagree. I live life in black and white. There are very few gray areas for me, because I believe that when you have discoloration, it gives way to doubt, insecurity, and fear. I certainly believe in change, but…

Maybe Billy Dee can pay without complaining.

Protected: No Sleep Til’ Union: HURRY UP AND BUY

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Triceratop & Twerking

No Sleep til’ Union: Breaking the Vow

I had vowed to keep my marriage off of the internet. I received tons of advice, kind words, and even a few harsh ones telling me to keep my marriage off of the internet. Then I started my blog. I tried to reference my children, and not 4th Roomy as much as possible. I tried…

This post is about depression. This picture is not.

Depression Hurts. No Cymbalta.

When people remind you daily of what a great life you have, it’s crazy how difficult it is to believe them.  I am having a shitty summer. I would say it was a shitty life, but that would be me being super dramatic. My mom tells me every single day “Cara…you have a great life”….

Yes. I am using Diddy for photo examples.

Kept Woman? : Why I LOVE Being Taken Care Of

I like being taken care of. Not in that…part time, my boo bought me a gift and groceries kind of way. I like to rely on someone else to make the big decisions and money to finance my life. Out of my entire 28 years on Earth, I have solely provided for myself probably 2…

rings

Not married to or looking to marry black? Shut up about Black Marriage.

This is a post in response to this piece here …I typically don’t enjoy promoting articles I think suck. I really don’t like to do it, because I feel like if something is so terrible, why even suggest anyone else read it, you know? But I can’t let this one sit. First, I want to say I…

Pretty Much.

Is Positive Thinking Powerful?

Is positive thinking really that powerful? I hate to sound cynical or negative, but thinking positive thoughts, on the whole, have brought me more disappointment than good results. I don’t consider myself a negative person, because I don’t think that the worst will always happen either. I mostly just like to look at the situation…