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Take Your Ball and Go Home

Today, I got something I asked for which prompted me to write this post. I have been struggling lately with my ego. Arrogance and ego are terrible things, especially for a person who suffers from anxiety like me. My ego often and easily triggers my anxiety. So, in turn, as a means to change a…

Why Must I cry?

So…the Twins Asked About Conception

So…I just got home from picking the twins up from school. I am in sheer, anxious terror right now, so try to bear with me and the tone of this post. Today was like any other day I would get them from school, except I got another mom’s number for a play date…oh, and on…

Look how much fun I am having!

He’s Been Around

I married a man who has been around. This is a rough subject for me. I have been thinking about writing about it for a long time, but yesterday there was a discussion pertaining to the topic on twitter that hit a nerve with me. The first time I met 4th Roomy, I knew he…

Ultameatum

Ultimatums

You know how people always suggest it’s never a good idea to give other people ultimatums? I disagree. I live life in black and white. There are very few gray areas for me, because I believe that when you have discoloration, it gives way to doubt, insecurity, and fear. I certainly believe in change, but…

The Confused Baby Blues

I would like a new baby. I think about having a baby every single day. This isn’t just the wedding being over. This started way before the wedding even happened. Have you ever felt like you were literally CREATED to do something? That’s how I feel about having a baby. I wake up and I…

Maybe Billy Dee can pay without complaining.

Protected: No Sleep Til’ Union: HURRY UP AND BUY

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Triceratop & Twerking

No Sleep til’ Union: Breaking the Vow

I had vowed to keep my marriage off of the internet. I received tons of advice, kind words, and even a few harsh ones telling me to keep my marriage off of the internet. Then I started my blog. I tried to reference my children, and not 4th Roomy as much as possible. I tried…

This post is about depression. This picture is not.

Depression Hurts. No Cymbalta.

When people remind you daily of what a great life you have, it’s crazy how difficult it is to believe them.  I am having a shitty summer. I would say it was a shitty life, but that would be me being super dramatic. My mom tells me every single day “Cara…you have a great life”….

rings

Not married to or looking to marry black? Shut up about Black Marriage.

This is a post in response to this piece here …I typically don’t enjoy promoting articles I think suck. I really don’t like to do it, because I feel like if something is so terrible, why even suggest anyone else read it, you know? But I can’t let this one sit. First, I want to say I…

Pretty Much.

Is Positive Thinking Powerful?

Is positive thinking really that powerful? I hate to sound cynical or negative, but thinking positive thoughts, on the whole, have brought me more disappointment than good results. I don’t consider myself a negative person, because I don’t think that the worst will always happen either. I mostly just like to look at the situation…