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He’s Been Around

I married a man who has been around. This is a rough subject for me. I have been thinking about writing about it for a long time, but yesterday there was a discussion pertaining to the topic on twitter that hit a nerve with me. The first time I met 4th Roomy, I knew he…

Ultameatum

Ultimatums

You know how people always suggest it’s never a good idea to give other people ultimatums? I disagree. I live life in black and white. There are very few gray areas for me, because I believe that when you have discoloration, it gives way to doubt, insecurity, and fear. I certainly believe in change, but…

Our hands at the altar. I loved this one.

Teaser Shots!

My amazing photographer Genesis of Genesis Inman Photography sent me some teaser pics from our ceremony! I can’t wait to put up a full post, including some of my favorite moments from the wedding, and a little bit more info about the events of the day, but until they are all in my hands, take a peek…

The Confused Baby Blues

I would like a new baby. I think about having a baby every single day. This isn’t just the wedding being over. This started way before the wedding even happened. Have you ever felt like you were literally CREATED to do something? That’s how I feel about having a baby. I wake up and I…

Nobody's Perfect...

No Sleep Til’ Union: …but You’re Perfect for Me

I know the title is cliché, but listen, like Jermaine, my guy has southern charm, New York swag and is light skinned so you will get involved. So anyway, you know how they say that marriage is not about love? You know how they say it’s about compromise, and growth and finding someone you can…

It really isn't.

No Sleep til’ Union: This IS NOT About You

Author’s Note: So, in the middle of the start-up of the “No Sleep til’ Union” series, I caught a horrible cold. I missed two days of posting, but I am currently in recovery so I am back to adorn you with tales of my holy ass matrimony. If I could go back in time, and…

When I think of wearing my dress I just...

No Sleep Til’ Union: The Dress

I love my bridal gown. Wedding dress. Whatever. I love it. It’s so simple. There’s not a lot of dazzle, or flair. I am the kind of person that even I expected to see walk down the aisle in something that was all bedazzled and huge. It’s not though. Its a simple, mermaid style dress….

Maybe Billy Dee can pay without complaining.

Protected: No Sleep Til’ Union: HURRY UP AND BUY

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This post is about depression. This picture is not.

Depression Hurts. No Cymbalta.

When people remind you daily of what a great life you have, it’s crazy how difficult it is to believe them.  I am having a shitty summer. I would say it was a shitty life, but that would be me being super dramatic. My mom tells me every single day “Cara…you have a great life”….

rings

Not married to or looking to marry black? Shut up about Black Marriage.

This is a post in response to this piece here …I typically don’t enjoy promoting articles I think suck. I really don’t like to do it, because I feel like if something is so terrible, why even suggest anyone else read it, you know? But I can’t let this one sit. First, I want to say I…