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Archive for June, 2012

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Kept Woman? : Why I LOVE Being Taken Care Of

I like being taken care of. Not in that…part time, my boo bought me a gift and groceries kind of way. I like to rely on someone else to make the big decisions and money to finance my life. Out of my entire 28 years on Earth, I have solely provided for myself probably 2…

rings

Not married to or looking to marry black? Shut up about Black Marriage.

This is a post in response to this piece here …I typically don’t enjoy promoting articles I think suck. I really don’t like to do it, because I feel like if something is so terrible, why even suggest anyone else read it, you know? But I can’t let this one sit. First, I want to say I…

Pretty Much.

Is Positive Thinking Powerful?

Is positive thinking really that powerful? I hate to sound cynical or negative, but thinking positive thoughts, on the whole, have brought me more disappointment than good results. I don’t consider myself a negative person, because I don’t think that the worst will always happen either. I mostly just like to look at the situation…

DENIED

How To Reject A Guy You Don’t Like

Recently a person close to me asked me to blog about this topic. We’ve all been there. You are single…or dating…or married, and a guy is interested. And you’re…not. Only, he’s a decent enough guy that you aren’t trying to give him the number to the local movie theatre, or just hit ignore every time…

all of this.

Stop Ranting To/About Your Babydaddy & Woman Up

So, yesterday, I went on a twitter rant. I summarized my tweets in a paragraph, but I need to write more, because this is a subject that I feel SUPER strongly about.  Read my summary: Women: If you want your kid to have a guaranteed father, cultivate a healthy relationship, get married, and then have…

Ugly? Really folks?

Ode to Tameka Raymond: Regular Black Girls Rock

On our commute to Catlett, Virginia this weekend, 4th Roomy and I were flipping radio stations and we heard something interesting. Ebony Steele, of the Rickey Smiley Morning Show, had a sound bite played to advertise the show. During the bit, she showed her disgust regarding backlash over Tameka Raymond during she and Usher’s ugly…