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Take Your Ball and Go Home

Today, I got something I asked for which prompted me to write this post. I have been struggling lately with my ego. Arrogance and ego are terrible things, especially for a person who suffers from anxiety like me. My ego often and easily triggers my anxiety. So, in turn, as a means to change a…

EJ opening up a present on his first Christmas alive

Santa Magic

My kids believe in Santa Claus. I hope they will until they are at least 8, but the way the world strips children of innocence, I will be lucky if I make it through kindergarten with that belief still intact. Recently, two of my favorite twitter follows (@LoveIsMayhem & @MiaWoods2005) were discussing how much they…

Why Must I cry?

So…the Twins Asked About Conception

So…I just got home from picking the twins up from school. I am in sheer, anxious terror right now, so try to bear with me and the tone of this post. Today was like any other day I would get them from school, except I got another mom’s number for a play date…oh, and on…

Look how much fun I am having!

He’s Been Around

I married a man who has been around. This is a rough subject for me. I have been thinking about writing about it for a long time, but yesterday there was a discussion pertaining to the topic on twitter that hit a nerve with me. The first time I met 4th Roomy, I knew he…

Ultameatum

Ultimatums

You know how people always suggest it’s never a good idea to give other people ultimatums? I disagree. I live life in black and white. There are very few gray areas for me, because I believe that when you have discoloration, it gives way to doubt, insecurity, and fear. I certainly believe in change, but…

Building at the Maryland Science Center

How the twins doing? They survivin’…

I haven’t updated my blog about my children lately. I am not super sure why. I think I have been so wrapped up in raising them that I forgot to write about them.  Well. The twins are great. 4th Roomie and I just purchased this awesome LivingSocial deal for a pass to the Maryland Science Center…

Our hands at the altar. I loved this one.

Teaser Shots!

My amazing photographer Genesis of Genesis Inman Photography sent me some teaser pics from our ceremony! I can’t wait to put up a full post, including some of my favorite moments from the wedding, and a little bit more info about the events of the day, but until they are all in my hands, take a peek…

The Confused Baby Blues

I would like a new baby. I think about having a baby every single day. This isn’t just the wedding being over. This started way before the wedding even happened. Have you ever felt like you were literally CREATED to do something? That’s how I feel about having a baby. I wake up and I…

Maybe if I had this much hair.

No Sleep Til’ Union: #NaturalHair

To relax or not to relax, that is the question. I have been growing my hair out for over a year now, in anticipation of my wedding. I didn’t grow out my relaxer to make a stand or statement. I grew it out because my hair without a relaxer grows faster than it does with…

Yea...about that...

No Sleep Til’ Union: Flower Power

So, I never wanted a wedding with a ton of flowers. The good news is, I am still not having one. That didn’t change over the vast stages of planning this wedding has undergone. But, I also admittedly didn’t know a thing about flowers, or bouquets, or their cost. I never cared, really. To be…